14 Tinder Conversation Starters That Women Love
Recall, hot women on Tinder are bombarded with messages every day, so you have to do better than “Hi there.” With a message like that, there’s no potential for her to connect emotionally.
Your Tinder conversation starters need to instantaneously make her feel something. A positive emotional response creates an instant bond, so she’s more likely to invest time in replying to you. Once you’ve evoked this emotion, if you also can make it effortless for her to write back by posing a joy, interesting question at the end of your message, you’re golden.
It’s time to say goodbye to the lame, boring opening lines you’ve likely been sending lately, and attempt one of these 14 Tinder conversation starters that women love instead!
Stick around for three ordinary tips that will boost your response rate and learn how to keep the conversation moving toward a date!
Catch Her Eye With Animation
Not only do GIFs stand out in her message queue, they boost your response rate as well. Data analysis by Tinder exposed that GIFs are 30% more likely to get a response, and the conversations last twice as long.
The right GIFs can also give your conversations a burst of humor. Numerous studies have shown women are naturally attracted to funny fellows.
Finding a sense of humor sexy is literally hardwired into her brain. Why not use mother nature to your advantage when it comes to scoring hot Tinder dates?
Of course, you can be also funny without using GIFs, but make sure your humor is on point. Think classy, not locker room. Next up: two more conversation starters are sure to crack a smile.
Put A Smile On Her Face
Kick Begin A Longing
When it comes to boosting your response rate, mentioning food is a pro stir. According to Hinge, women are 40% more likely to react to messages that get them longing something delicious.
Engage Her Imagination
Travel is an excellent go-to topic for getting a conversation began on Tinder. Virtually all women love visiting fresh places and eyeing the glances, or at least thinking about going somewhere amazing. Who doesn’t have a travel bucket list?
Get Individual(ized)
Travel isn’t the only way to stimulate her mind’s “happy place.” Give her profile a quick skim and see if anything hops out at you from her photos or her bio. You could ask her about a hobby you share, her passion, or her pets, or even her name if it’s unusual sounding:
When you give her the chance to talk about herself, it stimulates pleasure centers in her brain.
Responding to your conversation starters literally makes her feel good – and the better she feels, the more convenient she’ll be providing you her phone number.
Here are a duo more examples that will have her responding in no time:
Age Isn’t Just A Number
There isn’t a magical message that every woman is ensured to react to on Tinder. For one thing, age is a factor when it comes to predicting what type of message will work best for a specific match.
A message that makes casual-minded cuties in their early 20s laugh and react very likely isn’t going to work that well with relationship-minded women in their mid 30s. These are very different audiences.
The data crunchers over at Hinge found that women of different ages react better to messages in certain categories:
Keeping these categories in mind could pay off in higher response rates overall. In fact, if you truly want to maximize your results, keep track of every opening line you send and every response it gets. That way you can see what works for you and what doesn’t.
Yes, it’s a bit tedious, but the data you’ll get in come back is totally worth it. This handy response rate calculator makes it as effortless as it can possibly be…
Believe In 2nd Chances
Your data will let you know which messages perform best in general, and those are the keepers. Keep in mind, even the best conversation starters don’t work 100% of the time.
Don’t throw in the towel if she doesn’t react. There could be thousands of reasons, and not all of them have to do with you. Maybe her meeting commenced, or she’s catching up on Walking Dead.
Whatever the reason, give her a 2nd chance by sending a go after up message. Keep things lighthearted, the last thing you want is to sound desperate for a response. That’s not hot.
Here’s an example of a go after up message that relates back to the conversation opener in a funny way:
You can also use a “stock” message like this one:
The 2nd example works no matter what your initial message said, which means you can quickly send it to any woman in your queue who hasn’t responded yet.
If she doesn’t react to your 2nd message, cut bait and stir on. The more unanswered messages you send the stronger that whiff of desperation starts to smell.
There’s no shortage of sweeties on Tinder, so shift your efforts elsewhere.
Three Elementary Things That Will Boost Your Response Rate
If you want to boost your response rate for each message, do these three plain things:
- Use her very first name. As Dale Carnegie noted in his famous book, “A person’s name is the sweetest sound in any language for that person.” It works on Tinder too. Including her name in your message creates an instant emotional bond – and when you get her feeling all warm and fuzzy she’s more likely to react.
- Pay attention to spell check. Messages with spelling, punctuation, and grammar errors are a dealbreaker for many women, so proofread your conversation starter before sending it.
- Message her in the evening. According to the data crunchers over at Nielson, Tinder’s peak activity occurs during “prime time,” so message her inbetween 5pm and midnight.
Keep The Convo Rollin’
On Tinder, keeping the momentum going is crucial. Tinder conversations have a brief shelf life, so you want to budge things off the app as quickly as possible by getting her number or scheduling a date.
When she responds to your opener, you need to stir the conversation forward before she loses interest and moves on, or her Tinder profile vanishes.
The easiest way to keep the momentum going is by asking her a question each time you send a message.
Generally, answering a question is lighter than thinking of something fresh to say. Think of it as saving her from that awkward muffle at a cocktail party when the conversation stalls. When you take the reigns, it’s effortless for her to go after your conversational lead.
Don’t be afraid to get creative – it is Tinder, after all. As you get more messaging practice, you’ll develop a good feel for what works and what doesn’t. Keep track of the lines that work best for you, and use them again and again.
If you send a message that falls vapid, you can still save the convo. For example, if she replies, “I have no idea how to react to that” simply write something like “That’s okay, you don’t need to say anything. Just tell me more about your tastes… Night out on the town or Netflix? Chocolate cheesecake or warm apple pie? Hiking in the mountains or figure surfing at the beach?”
On an app like Tinder, you may have to exchange Ten+ messages before the time feels right to ask her out. Here are some signs she’s into you:
- She’s actively contributing to the conversation, not just answering the question you asked.
- She’s asking you questions as well – curiosity is a sign she wants to know more about you.
- She’s sending positive vibes with blessed emojis and exclamation points.
When you feel the time is right, you have two options for taking things off the app:
- Asking for her phone number (or her Facebook)
- Suggesting a meet up
No matter which purpose you have in mind, embark by making a statement you know she’ll agree with. That puts her in the “yes” framework of mind.
For example, say “You seem cool, but I’ve found it’s hard to predict chemistry until you’re face to face with someone. Let’s meet up for coffee or drinks?”
Once she agrees, you can write “Great, what’s your number? I’ll text you to figure out the details…”
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