How to Save your Violated Relationship

There is nothing more hurtful than a Cracked relationship. When we are in a relationship with a person who plays a vital role in our life, we are kind of use to and dependent to that person but this is life and sometimes because of few insane blunders such valuable relations gets cracked. People do say that once there is bitterness in any relation its unlikely to get the same feeling and respect in that relationship but I don’t feel same . Dealing with violated relationships is not that effortless and one need to make sure all steps should be taken cautiously and all words mean the same.

If you indeed want to make up a relation then there are ways to bring a spark in that relation again. But before that you must be sure that you need that person back in your life, I guess if you are reading this article then of course you need someone back in your life.

There can be many reasons because of which love ones, friends, siblings depart but if you still have a soft corner for them then you should for sure attempt to revive your relationship again.

Tips to Save a violated relationship:

• Attempt your best to make up:

It’s raunchy to get someone in your life who was your strength, who used to be there when you need a shoulder to sob, who had the power to make you smile and who gives all reason to stay blessed. But when such people budge away from you then you find yourself lost and need lots of positive energy to get back on track of your life. If the reasons are not so bad for a break up of such relations then there is no harm to revive that relation again and for that you must stay positive and attempt your best to make up with such special person in your life.

If you think that bitterness in your relationship is because of another person then do recall that he/she is a human being and humans do make mistakes. No one is flawless and we all make mistakes in our life. Thus attempt to leave behind the past and forgive others, especially if they made the mistake unintentionally. Forgiving someone never mean that you are less than other people, it shows that you are strong and wise enough to forgive someone.

• Keep ego aside:

This is the worst part of any relationship which always hold you back to bring your love one to you. After moving apart both people think who is going to break the ice because at that time ego is of higher priority than sweetness and unconditional love. If you indeed value a relationship then why ego is letting it down? If you indeed want to make up a relation then do keep your ego aside and use your heart to bring those sweet moments again in your life.

There are a lot of confusions in your relationships once its breakup without clearing those problems, you wont ever get same feeling for each other. Don’t hide anything from each other. If you are startled that it might worst the situation then thinks twice, what the worst would happen? There is already lots of bitterness in your relationship. May be a healthy and unbiased conversation can bring the love back to your relationship, nothing harm in attempting.

Once you both are persuaded, leave behind the past, leave behind the bad moments and just reminisce how much significant you both are for each other. Commence your relation afresh and make sure that petite problems and conversation don’t ruin your relationship again.

Bonus peak: If you always want to save a relationship, always be see-through before its too late and you begin regretting your mistakes. It helps you to bring trust and maintain a long term relationship . If you are going to have an end of relationship conversation with your fucking partner, and you want to fix this, it’s always a good idea to meet the person and talk instead of using phone, SMS or Emails. When you hold your playmate’s arm and talk to them and attempt to make them understand your points, this might be indeed helpful to save this ending relation.

I hope this few factors will surely help to make your cracked relationship sweet again. If you have more tips then do share with us, it might help others to get their love back.

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He was unexpected stuff who came in life unexpectedly wid the message knock knock ! I was in bad mood i replied “say”..he was too much attracted towards me ..i talked like v r not strangers..and i alws talked him about my ex bf..n he supports like dad..afta month my exam was thri stopped using cell phone he called me like an idiot smetym i tlks smetyms dun..bcz i was nt intreasted ..but he made me love. I dunno when i commenced to talk him wid the right face may b it was july .

I embarked to fall for him..n he was making me more fall fo him..but he didn't dreamed to be in relationship bcz of family stuff may be..but still widout thinking of future.we fall in relationship widout meeting..may be..dunno exactly whathappened..we met afta a six month of talking period bcz n …story is too big .

But at the end i wanna know he broke up wid the reason that yar u rdoin too much..u r so superstitious.. Don't behave like child..keep some privacy of relationship.. Don't put private pictures..afterall i went delhi to meet him he called me wid his own tickets by air..owe man i dunno he is fake or what but i juz want to know what to do ? How to be a big damsel ? How to be a mature ? I wamt him back..n ya i left behind AFta proclaiming breakup he calls once a day..n asked hows u? N i told tht don't call me if you don't have feeling..cometo me when you want me in your life again..Two days no call

The same such problem I was facing twice of in our relationship but eventually she left me.. I feel so bad I dnt know what should I do with her she's bitch, she ditch me for another boy

But now I m totally liberate my mind soul n heart m totally gone of my life..

What actually I was liking in her, but she didn't have.. I was always expect from her true love but her.. Sory I have no words for that fucking lady.. She broke six year relationship

i m swati , my breakup with my bf last 2007. he did not get merry with me because his parents was not ready. i get marry someone and he did also. but he was always care me without telling me and call me any time. but i always cut his call. but right now some problem in my parents family so i call him and then he was tell me ki i don't want anything from u i wanna just true phone a friend with u. i never meet u. he is very nice person he never hurt someone. but i m indeed confuse what i do. pls help me

eshanso drai says

Just go on don't attempt to love with the person with whom you got marriage cux urs reputation is also significant just get off of that person cux it may bring only tears to urs eyes n sorrow in ur heart…yea if ur hubby is not intrested in u dn go with dat but all u need is to be adjasted with any one of both.

Plz help me I m going to tell u abt my n my bf relationship all thing was going gud but abruptly I did one kind of mistake in front of my bf he warned me earlier for that kind of mistake once a day but unluckily I did again n mistake was like I used other boy name in front of him ….n after dat my bf mood was going to be fully off n I attempted to mk his mood gud n quiet i did every efforts by my side as i cud did for making his mood chill bt was failed coz he continued thought many negative things abt me so his mind was divert n he dozen want to keep any relationship with me :'( … n now I Donn want to liberate him coz I indeed love him

bliss chioma says

all I have to tel you is that you should be carefull in everything you are doing ok

i have dated my woman for three years, she loved me so much but i took it for granted bcos of the friends i kept and the life i lived. i loved her so much, buh i never showcased her that i did.. shes a jealous type, she hates watching oda damsels around me, same with me. but i secretly had female friends, she found out, but all i did was to shout at her.. i hurt her so much but never stopped loving her, upto date we are still together. she got back at me when i traveled out, rather she slept with the so called boy.. i forgave her, but she keeps bringing up attitudes and ego. when i eventually determined to let her be, she began to call and apologize, i accepted her back bcos i knew i wronged her back then. she keeps telling me that she loves me from the depth of her heart after all the torments i faced in her palms last year. all i want to know, is she genuine? am crazy about this woman, she was, but i dont know for now even when she says she is.. i need an advice please

pemaro brian says

am indeed sory but just know god has all answers. Beg as much as you can with utter faith for the situation to switch

I had a similar.problem with my beau we've dated for three years.I love him so much. And I know he did.but we had misunderstlanding inbetween us. We break up and we make up. He's cheated on me I also did.I forgave him when he did but he can't forgive me Wen I have.he tells me Soo much painful things to hurt me.but I never give up on him.and now he tells me He doesn't love me like he used to.he's not truly into me.please tell me what should I do I'm indeed heartbroken

david akanyika says

we both loved each other very much however stayed different towns and what we dreamed was to end up together from nowere she switched but when i attempted asking nor talking to her she did say all was ok i moved to a town near her n sold an item we both bought and invested in another business i called to come n see but she dint .the relation got cold n time was passing by i got in another relationship tho’ deeply still in love with my love …and at the end we seperated thus still want my very first love.i did talk to my friend who told me she too was asking him were she went wrong plz i want ha back because am not compleat without her

My boy friend and i had several fight in a week and in the end of all of them he told me we should end this also he insists to be only friends. After each time he switches his mind. I feel so insequre in this relationship i couldn't take more uncertenty however i still want to be with him. We have determined to think about our future in 2weeks them determine to break up or not.

I want to keep this relation ship but i am attempted of an unstable relationship.

What is your advice?

Hi guys well I just lost my gf whom she an I love each other so much but then she left me bekos of what I am about to mention

1)I have a child and I and my baby mama broke up but hen she don't want to leave u alone because she an I always argue an a don't need dat in my life.

Two) My gf's father found out that her daughter is datin a boy who has a child an they a fighting.

So am askin myself that is there a chance a can get back wth myboo or not.

Hi..I and my bf had issues about a masculine friend of mine whom had no intentions towards me because I'm in a relationship and he respects that. My beau has been feeling insecure and I had to cut contacts with my friend because I want my relationship to work. The communication is powerless. My bf scarcely calls me,I have been on probation since and it is tiring.I miss him, I miss the way we use to go hours talking without getting tired. Please how can I bring back the love because I don't wanna liberate him

truly been attempting to get my bf X to realize get it to to to mess up and for him to leave behind about what happened and let's commence over with a fresh relationship please call me at three hundred thirty four 797 five thousand five hundred sixty so I can tell you more about that problem and see if you can hit me with you

Hy guys,,i hv a crus problm in betwin me n mi gf,,is almost 5yrs mi family display her dat dei dnt like her in dis family..mi mother snd sms abt her n she found dat sms read evrything mi mother sad, she always told me dat if icnt solve dis matter she wil leave me, nw she left me n she told me she cnt b in de ralationship wth anymore n nw realise dat painfuly she ws felt for years. i dnt knw wat to do nw.

my relationship was wicked by two things 1bro to my bf who claimed that we had relationship with him,Two)my patents who also claimed that i had to accomplish my studies at university level/college before getting married and this ideas weakened my relationship.how can i do to strength en it.plz advise me am suffering since i love that man!

I also had an issue with my boy friend he doesn't pick my call, and he told me to give him time. what do i do

I am in relationship with my GF since 5yrs… However, since two yrs we stayed in different locations.. But everything was going gud. But few months back.. Someone entered our life.. She was attracted to his behaviour. I loved her very much.. I Love her still… I will forever.. I m in a stage that I cannot live without her. Now she realised her mistake.. but the only situation is- I know what happened to her.. and she knows that I know it… and she is thinking that she cheated me… I know that this kind of situations happens in anyones life at any moment… I can understand her feelings that she done it not willingly but by mistake… I truly want that Chick in my life.. I just want her to leave behind that I know the issues and I just want her to proceed her life with me, as if nothing happened to her these three months… Now she is feeling guilty and not speaking to me… I Love her alot that I am incapable to concentrate in anything if she is like that… How can I switch her mind… How can I get her back…Plz help me and her…. Im not going to live without her… and Im not going to leave her with this feelings… She wants me to marry any other doll… That I cant do… I love her so much… Plz Help

guyz i have a problem i was dating this chick…bt we r no more together bt i still love her wth all my soul…bt she z dating another dude wat can i do….

wait ?$ chick ? chicken ? wth are u dating with chicken ?

After making love with my spouse one morning, he insisted on knowing if I orgasmed, I thot he desired to improve and told him no that he has only made me orgasm once in our four yrs together., the lovemaking is good I just don't orgasm at least the hook-up keeps me coming back. My hus band is now disappointed in me for not telling him and in himself, he is now cold to me, no hookup since d day I spilled… I thot he was more understanding, maybe I shld hv left it d way it was, how do I revive d hook-up in my marriage. … How do I get my man back….

Hi guys , I just lost my gf whom she an I love each other so much but shadenly by my mistake .I think she ll come to me ,why l. she left me .Why? .Bcoz whenever she talk to friend , I feel awkward ,one day i say tO her that do not talk to your friend .now she dont want to rebuild our relation b.,But want her back:'(:'<

Shraddha Rokade says

Hiii…guyzzz it's me shraddha I brk my bf trust….wt should i do can he come back in my life..always I lie to him becz I was frightened when I'll tell him abt my past he I'll leave me……but truthly I love him I can't live without him…….I have my relsnshp four months nd I came so much close to that boy…..

tammana reddy says

wnt to clear my douts i m so serious wid a six month relationwid a fellow it ws my miskates hving affair wid a man der ws my ex bf who i hv been contct wid him n i dont he is being contctd wid my man who is been both luv each other but my ex makes contct wid him n make his brain wash n last week v both broke n i m regretin n apolizing my mistake but he is not ready to get me in his lyff n i wnt him i luv him damthrough frm d bottom of my heart n he is not frgiving wat to do plztell

melinda newcastle says

i m typing this with agony in my heart because of a puny mistake just because i hid my past from my bf and someone else came and told him about me i does not love me anymore n does not care also m typing this today and m telling everyone who is going to utter in love r is in love pls dont hid ur past to your playmate pls tell them everything coz ur some mistake will lose ur true love like i lost my love even now m waiting for him to come but i dont know if he will come or now pls b careful everyone

sachin thakur says

i love my ex gf our breakup last 31jan two thousand sixteen without any reason and now she is commited with someone yesterday she say i like u ….and also loves u ..u cant understand she is from ludhiana and m from himachal give me some tips plzzzzz i love her soooo much

Hi everyone it was going back three years ago when I meet this amazing man he was working at the hopsalt where my nan was as her suger leavel was hight everytime I went to see her he would be lookin at me and then smile at me and not sayin hello one day … It was mother days my mum went to see my nan and my nan had a pic off me james trun around and said she beautful and that he had fullin in love with me I had fullin with him I had fight my family over him I pick him over my friend and family … I love him one day I facebook him and told him about my nan that just past aways I always desired him but was it unreal or untrue someone please tell me

i also have breakup with my paramour. because his parents does not agree that we r getting married. because of caste. i love him soo much nd i want him back in my life…plz someone hlp me

u all r right nowadays ladies and boys r very bad don”t worry leave behind dem n embark a fresh relationship……..

my fiance broke up with me because his brother told him not to marry because we are not attending the same church, and now his begging me to come back, that, his stil love me no matter want. Please what should i do?

shaedaee hanson says

me and my gf been together for almost a year i love her with everything thats in me she means the world to me i know that we have love for one another but where like oil and water we dont mix we have things in common so of course im not talking in that manner but we argue alotttt we its like we can be ok one min and the next were argueing like to strangers i dont wanna give up because i im inlove with her but what should i DO.

hi please help me out I love is telling she not interested in the relationship anymore because of some misunderstanding that we had and after I calling her sister to tell I have spent on her so will not leave her for anyone and will take is to where ever I want if she leave me

farnk macry says

I hope this few factors will surely help to make your cracked relationship sweet again. If you have more tips then do share with us, it might help others to get their love back.

Need some one to talk to about my relationship?

hi there..I have a big problem me and my dated for nine years and now we have a child since we have a child things weren't going well coz I was feeling insecure about and I became rude to him and I even say I dnt want him anymore in my life bt that I ddnt mean all my telling and now..he attempted to fix things bt I ddnt want time and now it's my turn I want to fix and all he's telling he says he moved on with his life I'm not sure whether I must give up or keep on attempting

my gf is not talking to me cause i do the same things n hurt her again she is not listening to me plzz help me tormentor what to do i love her soo much but i didm't anythinh like a game i just wanna see her smile but all wents wrong nothing was my intention to hurt her but then also it happens….plz help me

I love my bf so much more than anything else more than my family more than everyone but I have done a mistake I told him about my past relationship he is ok with it then I promise him that I never smooch my ex bf I lie two three times at tha end I told him that yes hi smooch me once than he begin forcing me that tell me trust would you ever slept with anyone I say no but he doesn't trust me at the end I except it but truth is that I never ever slept with anyone he cut my call and say that ur character less now I am telling him that I never slept with anyone but he is not understanding me he thik that how can he spend his entire life with a character less damsel but he is not ready to listen the truth he is telling that a chick who promise me so many times that she never smooch anyone at the end u except it then how should I believe on you that u never ever do hook-up with him I have no trust on u and u hurt me a lot he is ready to meet me once but I don't know how to save my relationship he always say thay u except it that u slept with him and now u r telling that u never do that he recorded that call when I except it that yes I slept with my ex bf he is ready to meet me in twenty day to do breakup my relationship is long distance relationship this is my last hope please tell me what to do I love him like a mad I can't live without you he is my life yes he is my bf but I always want him to be my spouse I do swift for him I beg for him I do everything for him I leave my family for him and he is think that I am character less I don't know what to do but that's true that he is my life and I have nothing except him I just want to spend my entire life with him please help me please I truly need help :'( he ever doesn't care about me he sad that if u want to die die I don't care about you just go to hell I know he love me so much in past he can die for me but I break his trust and now he doesn't even want to see my face :'(

than he is right as what he understood yu said i accept that i slept ve my ex now how he trust yu build up?

if yu once break anyone's trust i can not revive again. and yu said i lied and than i admit that yeah i slept. now how he trust you? now it's only one way tell him all what yu did worst and assure him that yu will never do any kind of worst now yu aw veritable with him. mistaken aw made by human being and yu aw also human forgive me ND GIVE ME JUS ONE CHANCE. may be something happen.

My bf and I have been dating for like three years. The very first time we dated we broke up after a month or so Bc we couldn't see each other. Like half a year later we both attempted moving on but we always ended up talking to each other. Then after a while we kind of realized that we never got back together so we indeed attempted moving on. I would attempt talking to some other fellow but when I was getting a bit more serious I would go back to him kind of just to make sure we weren't going to get together anymore Bc I didn't want to make the mistake of moving on when maybe he still wished to attempt again. He was always very rude and made it more than clear that he didn't want me. Later on I stopped talking to the other stud Bc It just didn't work out and well we began talking again. Then this one time I found out that he was cheating on me (I say cheated Bc even tho’ we weren't going out anymore he would still treat me like his gf,like before we broke up). I was so hurt but I still loved him so when a while later when he desired to make it official again I said yes. Time passes and we've been blessed together, we both matured so things are better. The only problem is that the chick he cheated on me with is in school with us. She has almost every class with him and I thought I was over what happened inbetween them back then but I'm not. She used to always talk crap about me and my bf would defend her Bc they were close friends before they had a thing. But when he realized how she truly was he didn't talk to her anymore. So after that I realized I wasn't over what they had back then Bc today they sat together and she takeout touching him and it bothered me so much. I truly don't know what to do anymore Bc every time she's near him we begin arguing about everything that happened back then and it seems like we're not moving forward anymore.. pls help me

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