The seven Not-so Demonstrable Reasons Your Beau Is Being Distant
Picture the scene: you’re talking away to your bf, getting lost in a labyrinth of irrelevant tangents, talking with an exuberance only gossiping can evoke. You steal a look at your beau but his eyes are glassy and distant. He even has the audacity to drift his eyes back to the television. He is most undoubtedly not listening. He’s overlooking you and all your tastey gossip, and it’s just not on.
A playful hit or an “are you listening?!” will normally suffice in these situations but what happens if you’re beau starts disregarding you for real?
1. There’s something on his mind
It’s universally acknowledged by all that studs aren’t all that good at talking about their feelings. They are a closed book. An safe total of emotions that’s been locked and the key thrown into the Thames. Which is why, when something is bothering them, they don’t come for you for a cupcake and a shoulder to sob on.
Two. That’s just how he is!
Let’s face it: you knew who he was when you got together. He was stoic from the begin. Sometimes you have to make it your mission in life to get him to open up. But beware: recall what happened with with Rachel and Elizabeth’s dad in Friends? It could make him an emotional wreck!
Or maybe at very first he was knightly and romantic, whereas now you can slightly get an reaction out of him about what you should have for dinner tonight.
Sometimes that honeymoon period wears off and you detect what your beau is like when he is relaxed and being 100% himself. Don’t be offended if he takes a while to text back but if you feel like he’s avoiding you for days, call him out on it. If you feel like he’s making a poor effort with you, you need to tell him.
Three. He’s just busy
Perhaps your beau is just a very busy man! He’s got things to do, people to see. He’s a very spectacular social butterfly. It’s a fact that is lightly overlooked – some people are just busy.
Four. He likes his space
Some studs are lone wolves, whereas you may be someone who likes to be around people 24/7. Both of these are fine, but he may just love having a bit more quality alone time than you do. It doesn’t mean that he likes you any less, you are just different in way that you like to spend your time. Anyway you know the old telling: absence makes the heart grow fonder! So perhaps leaving him to his alone time will do wonders for your relationship.
Five. You may have said something that’s upset him
Now, don’t instantly hop to this as your very first conclusion but he might be distant because you’ve upset him somehow. We all say things that can be misconstrued, or could be taken in offence, without even noticing. Sometimes people like to sulk it out rather than have a total deepthroated confrontation about it.
6. There’s someone else
It’s a hard pill to guzzle, but sometimes it’s not you – it’s someone else. No one likes to think their playmate is cheating on them, or even thinking about other women, but it happens. It’s unlikely, but it does happen.
Don’t hop to this conclusion very first tho’, as it could be bruising. If you feel strongly enough about this, confront him, but make sure you are sure about your feelings. Accusing someone of cheating is a yam-sized deal, and could be enough to break a relationship on its own.
7. The relationship is over
Obviously don’t fear the worst, but it may be time to call time on your relationship, whether you want to or not. If this is the case, you have to hope that your beau will be mature enough to give you the dignified ending to the relationship that you deserve. But if he’s not, and he thinks the best way to jiggle you off is to give you the silent treatment, then kick him to the curb very first gf!
It’s significant to reminisce that, if you feel like you are being disregarded by your beau, you speak to him before you hop to any conclusions. Never instantly think it’s your fault, because it very likely isn’t. Don’t let him make you feel like you’re not good enough for his attention, and if you already feel this way, let him know. The best case script is that he doesn’t know how he’s making you feel, and you can both come away from the conversation having a better understanding of each other.
Have you experienced the silent treatment? Let us know how you dealt with it: @sofeminineUK
My Beau Disregards Me: Seven Reasons Why
The seven Not-so Demonstrable Reasons Your Bf Is Being Distant
Picture the scene: you’re talking away to your beau, getting lost in a labyrinth of irrelevant tangents, talking with an exuberance only gossiping can evoke. You steal a look at your beau but his eyes are glassy and distant. He even has the audacity to drift his eyes back to the television. He is most certainly not listening. He’s overlooking you and all your sweet gossip, and it’s just not on.
A playful hit or an “are you listening?!” will normally suffice in these situations but what happens if you’re beau starts disregarding you for real?
1. There’s something on his mind
It’s universally acknowledged by all that dudes aren’t all that good at talking about their feelings. They are a closed book. An safe utter of emotions that’s been locked and the key thrown into the Thames. Which is why, when something is bothering them, they don’t come for you for a cupcake and a shoulder to sob on.
Two. That’s just how he is!
Let’s face it: you knew who he was when you got together. He was stoic from the embark. Sometimes you have to make it your mission in life to get him to open up. But beware: reminisce what happened with with Rachel and Elizabeth’s dad in Friends? It could make him an emotional wreck!
Or maybe at very first he was knightly and romantic, whereas now you can scarcely get an reaction out of him about what you should have for dinner tonight.
Sometimes that honeymoon period wears off and you detect what your bf is like when he is relaxed and being 100% himself. Don’t be offended if he takes a while to text back but if you feel like he’s avoiding you for days, call him out on it. If you feel like he’s making a poor effort with you, you need to tell him.
Three. He’s just busy
Perhaps your bf is just a very busy man! He’s got things to do, people to see. He’s a very luxurious social butterfly. It’s a fact that is lightly overlooked – some people are just busy.
Four. He likes his space
Some studs are lone wolves, whereas you may be someone who likes to be around people 24/7. Both of these are fine, but he may just love having a bit more quality alone time than you do. It doesn’t mean that he likes you any less, you are just different in way that you like to spend your time. Anyway you know the old telling: absence makes the heart grow fonder! So perhaps leaving him to his alone time will do wonders for your relationship.
Five. You may have said something that’s upset him
Now, don’t instantaneously leap to this as your very first conclusion but he might be distant because you’ve upset him somehow. We all say things that can be misconstrued, or could be taken in offence, without even noticing. Sometimes people like to sulk it out rather than have a utter deepthroated confrontation about it.
6. There’s someone else
It’s a hard pill to guzzle, but sometimes it’s not you – it’s someone else. No one likes to think their playmate is cheating on them, or even thinking about other women, but it happens. It’s unlikely, but it does happen.
Don’t hop to this conclusion very first tho’, as it could be hurting. If you feel strongly enough about this, confront him, but make sure you are sure about your feelings. Accusing someone of cheating is a enormous deal, and could be enough to break a relationship on its own.
7. The relationship is over
Obviously don’t fear the worst, but it may be time to call time on your relationship, whether you want to or not. If this is the case, you have to hope that your bf will be mature enough to give you the dignified ending to the relationship that you deserve. But if he’s not, and he thinks the best way to wiggle you off is to give you the silent treatment, then kick him to the curb very first gf!
It’s significant to reminisce that, if you feel like you are being disregarded by your bf, you speak to him before you hop to any conclusions. Never instantly think it’s your fault, because it most likely isn’t. Don’t let him make you feel like you’re not good enough for his attention, and if you already feel this way, let him know. The best case script is that he doesn’t know how he’s making you feel, and you can both come away from the conversation having a better understanding of each other.
Have you experienced the silent treatment? Let us know how you dealt with it: @sofeminineUK
My Bf Overlooks Me: Seven Reasons Why
The seven Not-so Visible Reasons Your Beau Is Being Distant
Picture the scene: you’re talking away to your beau, getting lost in a labyrinth of irrelevant tangents, talking with an exuberance only gossiping can evoke. You steal a look at your beau but his eyes are glassy and distant. He even has the audacity to drift his eyes back to the television. He is most undoubtedly not listening. He’s overlooking you and all your yummy gossip, and it’s just not on.
A playful hit or an “are you listening?!” will normally suffice in these situations but what happens if you’re beau starts overlooking you for real?
1. There’s something on his mind
It’s universally acknowledged by all that fellows aren’t all that good at talking about their feelings. They are a closed book. An safe utter of emotions that’s been locked and the key thrown into the Thames. Which is why, when something is bothering them, they don’t come for you for a cupcake and a shoulder to sob on.
Two. That’s just how he is!
Let’s face it: you knew who he was when you got together. He was stoic from the begin. Sometimes you have to make it your mission in life to get him to open up. But beware: reminisce what happened with with Rachel and Elizabeth’s dad in Friends? It could make him an emotional wreck!
Or maybe at very first he was knightly and romantic, whereas now you can hardly get an reaction out of him about what you should have for dinner tonight.
Sometimes that honeymoon period wears off and you detect what your beau is like when he is relaxed and being 100% himself. Don’t be offended if he takes a while to text back but if you feel like he’s avoiding you for days, call him out on it. If you feel like he’s making a poor effort with you, you need to tell him.
Trio. He’s just busy
Perhaps your beau is just a very busy man! He’s got things to do, people to see. He’s a very sexy social butterfly. It’s a fact that is lightly overlooked – some people are just busy.
Four. He likes his space
Some fellows are lone wolves, whereas you may be someone who likes to be around people 24/7. Both of these are fine, but he may just love having a bit more quality alone time than you do. It doesn’t mean that he likes you any less, you are just different in way that you like to spend your time. Anyway you know the old telling: absence makes the heart grow fonder! So perhaps leaving him to his alone time will do wonders for your relationship.
Five. You may have said something that’s upset him
Now, don’t instantly leap to this as your very first conclusion but he might be distant because you’ve upset him somehow. We all say things that can be misconstrued, or could be taken in offence, without even noticing. Sometimes people like to sulk it out rather than have a total deep-throated confrontation about it.
6. There’s someone else
It’s a hard pill to gulp, but sometimes it’s not you – it’s someone else. No one likes to think their playmate is cheating on them, or even thinking about other women, but it happens. It’s unlikely, but it does happen.
Don’t leap to this conclusion very first however, as it could be hurting. If you feel strongly enough about this, confront him, but make sure you are sure about your feelings. Accusing someone of cheating is a phat deal, and could be enough to break a relationship on its own.
7. The relationship is over
Obviously don’t fear the worst, but it may be time to call time on your relationship, whether you want to or not. If this is the case, you have to hope that your bf will be mature enough to give you the dignified ending to the relationship that you deserve. But if he’s not, and he thinks the best way to jiggle you off is to give you the silent treatment, then kick him to the curb very first gf!
It’s significant to recall that, if you feel like you are being overlooked by your bf, you speak to him before you hop to any conclusions. Never instantaneously think it’s your fault, because it very likely isn’t. Don’t let him make you feel like you’re not good enough for his attention, and if you already feel this way, let him know. The best case script is that he doesn’t know how he’s making you feel, and you can both come away from the conversation having a better understanding of each other.
Have you experienced the silent treatment? Let us know how you dealt with it: @sofeminineUK