The seven Most Common Lies Women Tell In A Relationship
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Many of you might have heard about a book I wrote called The Key Logger. To write the book, I used a key logger to record all the things typed by women on my computer while I was dating them. I have had a key logger on my computer for a very long time, and it permitted me to do something that most dudes couldn't: know when women lied to me.
These seven lies were the most common ones that women told me over the many years I have used a key logger. I will link to various articles and studies to help you understand why so many women will lie right to your face, and why it is so fucked up.
7. Age
Most of the women I date are within the 18-22 year old group. However, I noticed something from the puny number occupying the 24-and-up group: they frequently lied about their age. Maybe it was only a duo of years, but they would lie. Normally, I wouldn't include such a petite sample size on this list, but because such a high percentage attempted to trim off a few years, I had to add it.
Ladies lie about age for the evident reason: guys are attracted to junior women. Check out this article about at what age guys and women find each other most attractive.
Even with all the BS that the media is telling women (“40 is the fresh 30,” etc.), women still instinctively know when guys find them the most attractive and when they are above that age, they will sometimes attempt to hop in a time machine. Unluckily, it doesn't work.
6. Being Single
Another thing many women will lie about is whether they are single. There is the visible one where they will pretend they have a bf when a fellow they aren't attracted to asks them out, but we will concentrate on the opposite situation. When a female indeed likes a dude she completes up meeting, many taken chicks will lie about not having a bf. At the very least they will never mention it, which is the same as lounging about it.
There were fairly a few ladies that were in committed relationships before they met me. I don't usually ask a damsel if she is single; I just assume she is from the fact that she lets me smooch her and touch her in a more than friendly way. These damsels would never mention their beau’s and I would never know about them until getting a strange phone call, message on Facebook, or key logging them and watching that they were tying to bounce two (or more) guys.
Sometimes the damsels would attempt to go on dating both myself and another stud. Other times they would dump the stud after it seemed like the two of us were developing a consistent pattern of witnessing each other. Then, there were the women that would cheat on their bf’s of many years for the passion and excitement of being with another man.
You know what's scary about this? That man they cheat with could end up knocking them up. Take a look at this explore about how fair they are with their beau’s in situations like these.
50% of women ADMIT that they would lie to their beau telling it's his kid, and 42% of women would lie about taking birth control so they could get pregnant. Talk about the ultimate “fuck you” to your beau.
Five. We are just friends, he's not interested
Another common lie women will tell you when they say they are committed to you is “We are just friends, he's not interested in me.” I used to think that women actually believed this and were just too naive to notice. That was until I spotted for myself the evident way that these guys acted towards them: “I miss you,” “You look so sexy in that picture,” etc.
From these messages it was clear that no woman could honestly believe that these guys were interested in just being friends. Then, there were the damsels that would say the same things back. Why do women do this? There is a few reasons. They sometimes do it to get validation. Maybe it's just boredom, or maybe she has other plans for him.
Women will have “backup plans” and “the ones that got away” that they will proceed talking and flirting with. They keep “backup plans” in case the relationship doesn't work out or they have somebody to run to when there is a big fight in the relationship. She will keep “the one's that got away” for the possibility that she can win him over. You may be getting dumped soon if she succeeds. Women will hop ship when they think they can land a fellow of higher value.
This is scary because of how lightly this can lead to her getting knocked up by another fellow. Maybe “the one that got away” pumps and dumps her, or maybe a “backup plan” gets into her pants in the middle of one of your fights. Either way you could end up in the same situation as this man.
This dude raised his kid, then found out that his wifey had cheated on him with another man and that other man was the father of his little doll. After this, they ended up getting divorced. Go ahead, guess who had to keep paying child support. I'll give you a hint, it's not the real father. That's right, it's the man that was duped into raising another man's child.
To add insult to injury, his wifey ended up getting back together with the biological father of the kid. So the dude ended up paying child support for a kid who lived with her biological father and mother. It's very likely that this affair stemmed from the wifey telling her spouse “he's just a friend.”
Four. I don't flirt with other guys
The next most common lie is one they may tell you a lot: “I don't flirt with other guys.” This one is so common and so hard to catch her in, because of the liberate definition of “flirting.”
Here's my definition of flirting: talking to a normal stud in a way that could lead him to believe that you are sexually interested in him. Damsels can read bod language much better than dudes can, so they indeed do know when they are flirting and when a dude is only interested in something more. They do this for the same reasons as the lie above: backup, plans, boredom, etc.
Trio. I've never done this before
I think every experienced man out there has heard this innumerable times. After bringing a chick back to your place on a very first date or after just meeting her in the club, she will say “I've never done this before.”
She's telling that so you will believe that she is a good damsel who would never go home with a boy she just met, but that you were just that one in a million who it ended up happening with. Of course, if she's telling that, it's not even close to the very first time she has ever done something like that.
Women will attempt to emerge virginal so that they don't lose the chance to have a relationship with you. Women know that “You can't turn a ho into a housewife” so they will attempt to create an illusion in the hopes that you will fall for it. Unluckily, many fellows do fall for it, and things like the next investigate are what completes up happening.
The more hookup fucking partners a respondent had had inbetween age eighteen and the time of very first marriage or cohabitation, the more likely he or she was to be unfaithful (1.01) Source.
Yeah, you get married and surprise, surprise… she cheats.
Two. Last time she had lovemaking
This is one of my beloved things to ask. I commenced asking it a long time ago and it's still joy to ask because of the ridiculously high percentage of ladies that lie about it. I don't know why, but most ladies like to say the last time they had hookup was six months ago. For some reason, in their goes, it just sounds right. Too bad that at least eight times out of Ten, it's a straight-up lie.
As I have previously talked about, chicks are very aware of the fact that boys don't want to date a trampy dame, the same way that women don't want to date a stud with no job or who lives with his mom. They know this, so they pretend to be guiltless and they use this innocence as a weapon:
This is an article I wrote a while back about a woman that ended up sleeping with all three past writers of Swooptheworld within a nine month period. It shows her hilarious responses when confronted with the fact that all three of us knew we had been with her. She still desired to be seen as a good lady.
1. Number of Sexual Fucking partners
The most common thing that a lady will lie to you about is her notch count. I would say more than 90% of ladies lie to me about this. This was the very first lie I noticed a pattern with so many years ago.
Ladies want to be seen as harmless, but they want it to seem believable to you. Most of you have seen the movie “American Pie.” In that movie there is a scene that mentions this:
Jessica: If a fellow tells you how many women he's hooked up with, it's not even close to that. You take that number and divide it by three, then you get the real total. OK, so if Kevin is telling it's been three damsels it's more like one or none.
Jessica: The rule of three. It's an exact science. Consistent as gravity.
The rule of three works in this situation as well, just rearwards. When a dame tells you she has been with three guys, nine guys is most likely more accurate. If she tells you six, very likely around Legitimate. However, I have found that a lot of times it's even more, maybe six or seven times the number she told you. Contrary to Jessica's thoughts on the rule of three, it's not an exact science, but using it is a good way to have an idea of how many guys she has been with.
It's so strange that nobody ever talks about this because it's an evident lie, and one that could trick a fellow into providing everything to a chick who has been railing the beef whistle carousel all her life. Check out this probe that shows how drastically the chances of getting a divorce goes up if after every fresh fellow she sleeps with:
What these most common lies tell us
Yes, women have been lounging to you all your life. There is one positive thing you can take from these lies: it means that she is interested in a relationship with you.
Unluckily, that is the ONLY positive thing about all these lies. Just because they want something serious with us, it does not make it OK for them to con us into a relationship with them. They use the fact that we want an guiltless lady, and have become masters at appearing more harmless than they truly are. They want their prince without having to live like a princess… don't be duped.